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Online Dating Tips For Lesbians
Wondering how to get the most from your online lesbian dating site? Here are three tips you can start using right away…
Don’t Date Online
Yes, you read that right – Online dating is a great way to MEET women, but if you want to know how to get a lesbian girlfriend and build a meaningful relationship, you have to get the interaction off-line as soon as possible.
Most online dating tips simply tell you how to get someone to respond to your e-mail and how to communicate by email. But have you ever built a great relationship by e-mail or phone and found that there was nothing there in person? What a waste of time!
Not to mention that there are actually women who post inaccurate pictures or who want to chat online, but will flake out when it comes to meeting in person. So don’t waste your time dating online, simply use it as a place to meet her and get to know her the old fashioned way.
Timing Counts – A Lot
This is probably one of the most valuable online dating tips you’ll ever learn: send all of your e-mails on Saturday and Sunday morning. Some women get a LOT of emails, and they’re too busy to answer them during the week… not to mention that they’re distracted. But a lot of single lesbians go out on Friday and Saturday nights hoping to meet someone. When they don’t, they get frustrated and check their emails to see what their options are…and there’s your email…how convenient!
And your final online dating tip…
The Long and Short of Emailing
Here are three basic tips for contacting women on dating sites:
- Less than 100 words (too much and she either won’t read it or will think that you have nothing better to do with your time)
- Send a follow up if she doesn’t email back (persistence pays off)
- Position yourself as a woman of value
Now in relation to this last rule, the key is to show an equal amount of interest and disinterest. In other words, it’s not that big of a deal if she doesn’t write you back. This might sound counterproductive, but if a woman perceives that you aren’t desperate to hear from her she’ll automatically assume that you have a higher social value than a lot of the women contacting her.
With these online dating tips in your tool box, you’ll have an unfair advantage over the other single women out there, and more quality women in your life… and you don’t even have to leave your house to meet them. So get back in the game, and put these online lesbian dating tips to work right away at our lesbian dating site - it's an exclusive women-only network with millions of single lesbians!
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